Thursday, January 29, 2009

Visiting: a blessed virtue


This evening I had a nice visit with an acquaintance of mine who just gave birth (a month ago). An adorable baby girl who likes smiling, masha'allah. The reason for this post is to remind about the virtue of visiting people and subhan'allah how it gives the visitor an insight into things. For example, say one visits a sick friend, then besides qualifying for ajr, this person is reminded of a blessing. But what this visit did for me was amazing. I love children and after seeing my friend's love for the child and her plan to give baby girl the best morals and teaching of Islaam, I was left (you guessed it right) thinking. ha
Being blessed with a child is the most Honorable thing ever! May Allah bless baby Sumaya.

Peace & Blessings

spoken word


you gotta love the power of being
the mighty force of seeing
right from wrong
true from false.

but i gatta ask ya this
for the sake of asking
where do you keep your mind
when you're not utilizing,
engaging it in being?

do you surf at the cost of your thoughts
or do you prefer the dance around the fire?
ya're still gonna catch the fire
least ya gatta
splash the suit wet from
the full moon up on the sky
driving the tide in your mind.

so which power drives your conscious
how do you engage your mind
utilize it and live it?
or do you park it up on the highways
of uncertainties and mis-conceptions?

where do you keep your mind
when you're tired of it, scared of it
have you got a refuge for it,
an abode where it can call upon

don't tell me you've left your heart else where
that you've infanticide their relationship-
mind-body n soul.
flesh to soul, mind n heart...yes they go along

where upon will you rest your mind when
it is too tired to take upon
realness of realities?

don't tell me you're still gonna
call upon Enistine and Kant
Watson n Creek to do you a favor
when you gots to think for yourself.

intertwined like the double-helix
intriguing as the black hole of the universe
yes even that-
is your mind to your soul.

-hy- (12:55 28-01-'09)






Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Road Rules 101



TIP #1
Check where you are headed before you are lost even further: pull-over and check your map; if you end up in the highway, take the first exist. Just make sure you don't end up in the highway again!

TIP #2
Disregard the suggestion of one who seems to know nothing about how to read maps! (seriously)

TIP #3
Make sure your gas tank is reasonably full especially if you have a long drive and are prone to be lost.

PS: Please avoid BLACK-HOLES!!

(imma teasing habibty. lookin forward to be lost once again! gotta miss those adventures!)

Peace & Blessings

hikmet



Monday, January 26, 2009

contol it.

What do you do when you are angry???


I go to sleep, just as I'll be doing within the next 5 minutes!



(A'uzu Billahi Mina' Ashytani Rajim)

Sunday, January 25, 2009

and that thing

count on it when i can
snack on it between meals
rest on it for a while
and render it full of life.

what ye be today
and tomorrow ye are none
yesterday has passed
and it will never come.

thru the eyes of life
the cord of love
ye see what ye can never say-
in words, for others to comprehend.

though ye look for reasons
'ts what is, that can be
space on x, life on the y
z is for time, that is quickly passing by.

-hy-

"By (the Token of) time (through the ages). Verily man is in loss. Except such as have Faith, and do righteous deeds, and (join together) in the mutual teaching of Truth, and of Patience and Constancy." [103:1-3]

Monday, January 19, 2009

just like a bird


Maybe they appeal to me because they can fly,
maybe because they soar up high,
maybe because they are diligent in the early hours of morn',
or maybe because they are irresistibly cute,
or maybe because they can sing beautifully,
or maybe because they are captivating and energetic,
or maybe because they are good at who they're...just BIRDS.
you ever wished you were a bird?? I did many a time...
yet I'm only a HUMAN.

-hy-

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Attention: Please read on

In the Name of Allah the Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Insha'allah today I'd like to highligh a few amazing things I came across the past few days. As the semester is just getting interesting, I'll be posting less and less (even though that completely depends on how many more engaging things pop-up my way...so they'll be shared).
  • Please make sure you check smilecan, an amazing Canadian (Muslim) organization for the special needs children. (link is also in the left column list) I've always been curious about such initiatives and I came across the website and had a look at it. In a nutshell, they provide educational as well as logistics to support persons of special needs, such as autistic, Down Syndrome, the hearing and sight impaired etc. Even if you are not the kind of person who want to get involved, make sure you make donations, or volunteer your time to any help they might need. This is a great opportunity to channel your energy into something meaningful and local, and insha'allah qualify for Allah's reward (be izni Allah).
Insha'allah I'll try to update ASAP regarding the research I was compiling on Women's Health. For a starter I'll post insha'allah about fatigue and how to curb the problem without any medical intervention. By this, all I mean is looking at the potential causes as outlined in the peer reviewed literature, and potential life style changes ranging from types of food to eat/avoid, changing sleeping habits/conditions, and at last seeking the proper medical attention. I'll give reference for all the citing I'll use and it is my hope that some of you out there will benefit from it, I've surely seen some great improvement in my state.

In the future, I'm interested to develop some kind of resource page/book/help-line for Muslim women when it comes to getting access to health realted topics, such as diet, sexuality, natural birth control, choices during pregnancy and tests (amniocentesis, CVS, genetic screening of fetus), breastfeeding, advanced maternal age, child with special needs, menopause, osteoporosis etc. All these are quite important to any woman and as such as Muslims, I strongly feel that the topics are less dealt with in the proper manner; they are long over-due. Even though this initiative I've in mind is quite big, I'm hopeful that other sisters in the field of Medicine, Nursing, public health, women's studies, women scholars in the Sheria and Fiqh can collaborate. If you are one reading these and are interested, please let me know so we may develop it further (or if you happen to know somebody who will be interested in this, please pass on the message). I've thought of a blogpost, but with millions of blogs out there it is likely that the message will not reach the target audience and eventually get lost. Any thoughts, anybody??

Peace & Blessings to All.

-hy-





Friday, January 9, 2009

?

How many times must a man look up
Before he can see the sky?
Yes, 'n' how many ears must one man have
Before he can hear people cry?
Yes, 'n' how many deaths will it take till he knows
That too many people have died?
The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind,
The answer is blowin' in the wind.
(Bob Dylan; Blowin' in the Wind)

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

"smitten kitten"

They say there is a season for everything...a reason for anything. A few days back I read this, and was left thinking. I think a lot, no surprises there. I just thought I share the link with anybody interested.

When it comes to the subject of love, I guess I am no exception to the "I know about it all" cliche. But do I? All I want to say, if there is ever a thing left to be said, is what Mother Theresa said about it:

"I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love."

Peace be Unto You.
_hy_

Monday, January 5, 2009

fuel for a thought


truth in words and action
wisdom in reflection
commitment in resolution
sincerity in devotion.

strive to be the person you've always wanted to be

contemplate, pray and connect
in the greater scheme of things, well
you might as well be dead.

-hy-

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Read!

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, Most Merciful

"Read! Read in the Name of God who created thee..."
We are all aware that the above are the very first revelations Our Beloved, Muhammad (sallalahu aleyhi wa salam) got. They are indeed the foundations to acquiring knowledge and Mercy from Allah (azza wa jal). Today, we'll have a look at the benefits of busying oneself with reading books. I will also highlight here that reading over the Internet is not the same as reading a book, as some of us may substitute one for the other.

A book is considered to be the greatest "companion" to one. This is highlighted by one of the earliest Arab writer (Al-Jaahiz): " if the only benefit of a book was that it keeps you from foolish daydreaming and prevents you from frivolity, it would certainly be considered a true friend who has given you a great favor." Reading books is also known to relieve one of anxiety and grief. (Qt'd from Don't be Sad) It is certainly true that some people are not so fond of reading, while others find it hard to pick a book when they are overwhelmed with emotions. But on the contrary, what a book does is prevent one from ruminating over the very cause of anger or any other emotion a person is feeling.

Reading, from an Islamic perspective then is mandatory as the very first Words of Allah were to order the Prophet to Read! So what do some scholars say about it? Al-Hasaan al Lulu'ee said " forty years have passed, and I have not dozed off in the day or in the night...except that a book was resting on my chest." (Qt'd from Don't be Sad)

So what things do you enjoy reading? Biography, socio-political, novels, poetry, classical? All are alright to read and will give a person a focus point and inspiration. Habitual reading helps one "develop eloquence and clarity in speech" (Don't be Sad). Reading has many benefits besides helping one out of ignorance. Reading helps one develop principles and discipline. It is a combat to idleness and waste of time. As we all know, idleness is one of the geatest signs to be wary of when it comes to faith.

Speaking of principles and discipline it is crucial we highlight that our greatest source is the Qur'an. In fact the Book of Allah is the greatest source of peace and guidance. Allah says in the Qur'an : "[this is the] Book sent down unto you [o'Muhammed], so let not your breast be narrow therefrom, that you warn thereby, and a reminder unto the believers." (7:2)

It is the opinion of scholars that the Qur'an should be recited consistently and some actually say that it should be read in entirety every month by a believer. So, where are we in this regard?
The Beloved of Allah (sallalahu aleyhi wa salaam) has been reported to have said " Whoever reads a letter from the Book of Allah, he will have a reward. And that reward will be multiplied by ten. I am not saying 'alif, lam, meem' is a letter, rather I am saying that 'alif' is a letter, 'laam' is a letter and 'meem' is a letter." (reported by al-Tirmidhi and al-Hakim)

Subhan Allah, imagine the reward one will get from reciting the Qur'an so consistently, and add to that the one who has it committed to his/her heart...and every time they read it and their reward just gets being multiplied...(we're not talking Stock market here!) Reciting the words of Allah brings peace to the reciter and consistency bring sweetness and adds Noor to ones heart.

There are also different avenues we can take up when reading such as Sira, the lives of the Sahaba, the Ahadith, History, Medical and scientific knowledge, classical Arabic poetry (or translated versions of them for folks like myself), contemporary poetry, current issues, nature, languages and the list just keeps adding up as we all have diffenent taste.

So next time you have countless free time, or are bored to death, or can't fall asleep for no apparent reason, how about take a book and read a few lines instead of turning on the screen. Why have I not mentioned the digital norm of our day, the Internet? Reason is because, unlike a book, the Internet is limitless...it forks and keeps expanding. How many a time have you found yourself browsing through blogs and you just keep clicking, and clicking, and clicking to no end?? Such medias are much appreciated and in today's digital age, needed, but don't kid yourself; they don't help a thing when it comes to learning how to be focused. I don't mean that a person can't be focused when using the Internet, but on the contrary my argument is for a free time a person has at their disposal, what the Internet does is keep spreading the focus. Books on the other hand are quite limited to the subject at hand, you can't click your way out of it.

Verily, with knowledge comes responsibility and as such Allah has honored the people of knowledge. Hence with what we know, or learn we're going to be held accountable. We've heard many a lecture, read many a book, made many a note...thus many an action is what will be left to do. Our responsibility will be to utilize what we already know that we may benefit from it. Hence start today by building a discipline: be more focused.

How??

Insha'allah tune in for the answers in the near future( some are already mentioned here ).

Peace & Blessings

Hikmet